I don't even know how to broach the subject with him- which is why there is a certain appeal to having a profile name that sort rips on him with a picture of the two of us from the trip.

See, and now, the rationalization begins...."well, it's *not* like he's *with* another woman. Lot's of people here (on DB.com) are fighting to save a marriage where the spouse is actively cheating." "He *is* going out on dates with you." "He did say he wants to take Spanish lessons with you."

What about how people thought we were newlyweds? What about him saying he loves me more than anyone else in the whole world???

I feel like I am losing my mind. I see how he looks at me; I know how he kisses me; I know what he said-- WTH is he doing on match???

Edited to add- if I "ignore" this, how am I supposed to not hold back with him?



Last edited by Trixi; 05/09/08 04:43 AM.
Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing