CBK, we're not that far from each other -- I could do a day in Dixon easily.
That said, I believe CA has a mandatory six month separation before you can divorce. You have time. Use that time to DB like heck and center yourself!
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
