well I live in MI and H is going to FL, so no I really cant go. I have a 20month or son and it would be too expensive that I dont think it's worth it. I did think however of checking to see if OW shows up to work on sunday since she works nights. I NO i should not snoop and I havent in months but if he is on vacation with her I am completly done with H!!!!! I will be seeing my attorney before H can blink! H says he needs to get away I told him I went away to give you space for 6 weeks and then I was just gone for four day, you havent lived in this house for 5 months how much more space could you possibly need!! H says he needs space from OW BUT he dosent have to see her. They no longer work together so if he is seeing her it's his own fault. WHATEVER cant change him I just have to find a better way of dealing with things. I told him how pissed I was tonight then of course he bends over backwards to come over tom. so I can have a night out, calls several times in a row and leaves messages...why does it always take me being upset and pushed to my limits for him to do something then he falls back to the same routine!
