05-08-08

Update:

I have not seen ex in 2 weeks.

He had to drop the baby off this morning because my mom and dad were taking her on an outing.

He was fine the first 30 seconds he saw me. Then he SPEWED LIKE I HAVE NEVER SEEN HIM SPEW.

He said he is miserable. He wakes up every morning wishing he was not alive. He is poor, has no credit, and is working his ass off day and night. He said his life is far from what he thought it would be and is not "stable at all".

I told him that is what he wanted.

He said that he has "re-bonded" with the kids and cooks them really good home cooked meals. He has done everything to make me happy. (I have no idea what that means).

He said it is so hard cooking and cleaning and working and taking care of the kids.

I told him that is what he wanted and he made those choices.

He said he is glad he left me and our marriage was going to fall apart anyway.

I told him that God can restore marriages and anything is possible with his help.

I told him I pray for him everyday.

He got very angry and than threatened to take me back to court. I have no idea why.

He asked for more stuff out of the house. I told him to take it. He said he had no place for it. ----WTF

He threatened not to bring the baby back this weekend.

I told him to leave.


I had to drop the baby off at ex's after she spent the day at my parents. Ex was very humble. He asked if I wanted the kids before Sunday because it was Mother's Day weekend. I told him no thank you. He inquired about what I was doing tonight and told me to have a wonderful night. He looked sad and pitiful. I could tell he actually felt bad about this morning.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11