Oh, and all that will change for him. If he divorces me, I'll be living my life around myself and the kids. He'll have to do the same. I'm going going to be a wench to him or anything, but if he needs to go out of town for work when he's got the kids, he's going to have to figure what to do that doesn't involve dropping them off with me. I can be flexible to a point, but not to that point. He's going to have to pay the consequences for his actions and realize that everything will have changed.

OK, I have to get off. I'm just getting more angry, too.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.