Change your email address.I know a tremendous pain to do but do it. Well worth the temporary inconvenience to end their access to you on that level.
Get his name off of the accounts and then password protect them.When I worked for a utility they would allow this if you spoke to a supervisor and told them that it was for your protection given a personal situation in your life. He should not be able to see how much your light bill, gas bill, food bill, water bill or toilet paper (well since he is an a##wipe maybe this one-smile) bills are. He has no power or authority over you now.
I know it hurts, God how I know. But, you are such a wonderful person that something and someone much better is just around the bend. No worries.
