That is an awesome list B!!! focus on that everyday!

also remember, that H is trying to find happiness. thus, he's changing things and trying to fit into OW's world. He's not going to find that happiness in that either. I truly believe that this is going to pass, but like Jenny (I think it was J) you cannot be patient waiting for it to happen, but be patient and have faith that it will, but know that you will be just as good w/o it happening and you can do this all yourself and don't need him to do it.

You sound so much better now, I'm so glad.

On him attending the class, I don't think this is out of guilt. I think deep down, he wants to be part of this, and this baby, to him is going to be the best thing he ever did-in his mind. I maybe wrong, but if you haven't been slyly trying to get him to go to the class, which you haven't that I know of, and you haven't been calling him to come, and he's coming on his own, then I don't see it being driven by guilt. What really suprises me is the fact that OW is "letting" him go. He must really be feeding her a bunch of B.S.


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."