I've wrestled with writing to SF because I too want to find something that she can DO that will move her situation forward. It's hard to sit back and read each others stories day after day and realize how long the hurt and difficulties go on and not want to do something about it.


But here's what I finally decided.


The most important thing for each and every one of us that are going through this mess is that we be at peace with where we are and what's going on.

SF is at peace, or at least she appears to be. She is comfortable with things the way they are, and is comfortable with allowing things to proceed at their current pace.

Sometimes you can't ask for more than that.


I don't agree with the decisions that some people make in their situations, just as I'm sure that some people did not agree with the decisions I have made in my situation. But you know what? My situation is MY situation. Just like yours is YOURS. WE are the only ones who know what it's REALLY like living in our shoes.


So SF, if you want suggestions, opinions, advice on what to do, all you have to do is ask. We all care and we would all be happy to put our heads together and come up with some ideas.


But if you're good, and it sounds like you are, we'll wish you the best and continue to be hopeful for you.


Blessings,

Bill

"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."