But you know what occurs to me is that even though I wish I'd done these things differently, I like to think that actually I've really worked hard and changed about as quickly as someone could. Gotten stronger, more self-confident, happier, etc. I mean in 6 months I have pretty much transformed a lot of things about myself. I mean I went from really wimpy doormat (I hate to bring this up but remember when I stayed up half the night washing my H's clothes before he went on a trip with OW??? I think it takes a little while to really make changes, not something I could do in a day or week or whatever. So I think some of us (me included) should give ourselves credit for all the changes we have made and not focus overly on the negative and the should haves and could haves that we can see with hindsight. Although don't get me wrong, it is an interesting post!!! Karen
I think it takes a little while to really make changes, not something I could do in a day or week or whatever. So I think some of us (me included) should give ourselves credit for all the changes we have made and not focus overly on the negative and the should haves and could haves that we can see with hindsight. Although don't get me wrong, it is an interesting post!!! 
Karen