If I confirm all of this, should I ask her to leave? I know she wants the house, but darn it, I am the one that wants to work on this M - she wants to live in her fantasy - so maybe I should do some tough love and say she should find a place to live. Of course, she then could make the D hell on me... I don't know what to do. I love her, but am becoming more and more detached. Right now, don't even want her to come home tonight as I am know I will backslide and ask if she saw the guy...

The cell phone kills me to, she is NEVER without it - that is a sign within itself.

Don't see my therapist for another hour - may explode by then. I may tell my parents not to come up this weekend - I don't know.

Going down a road I would rather not right now...

CBK

M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19
Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16
Divorce final 10/09