I am a little scared of completely abandoning our marriage...especially when I am still very much in love with my wife.
There is no need to abandon your M this can be turned around...... it will just take time. Are you willing to wait?
Noone can tell you what she is feeling... only you can help her to find that out if she is willing....
My H had an EA to supposedly figure out why I had lost interest and wasnt doing him like I used to... he told me he would talk to her for hours about me.... when he said that to me it seemed so ridiculous...
WHY? Because you cannot generalize a Woman... how could she know why I was hurting or why I wasnt as Passionate when she is not me? Why didnt he ask me? Why didnt he look at what he was doing to contribute to me acting like this? Instead he had affairs an EAs whenever he saw fit...that really did not help me in the I want to do you dept. Maybe your wife thinks good Wives simply do not have hot sex with their H.. maybe she is comfortable with it and until you let her know it makes you miserable and she really gets it it will stay this way......... I know plenty of Women who would rather read a book than have sex. ~Ali
