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Re: Will it make it easier on you Virtually_Handsome #1440186 05/08/08 10:14 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA M MichelleLT OP Member
OP MichelleLT Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA	So, the paperwork for my new job requires H's signatures on beneficiary forms, especially if I don't name him. So, I guess he's seeing me whether he really wants to or not. He said he's available tonight. I don't actually want to deal with this. But I need the paperwork done tomorrow. And I really don't want to have to explain why it's so hard to get my H to sign something when we should be living together. Grrrrrrr. I thought the party was on Lisa's thread? What are you all doing here??? :tongue: Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2

Re: Will it make it easier on you Virtually_Handsome #1440191 05/08/08 10:16 PM
Joined: Sep 2007 Posts: 3,337 London UK O One Day Member
One Day Member O Joined: Sep 2007 Posts: 3,337 London UK	Originally Posted By: dry_heat Originally Posted By: One Day Man, I've been looking for the naughtiness tonight, and guess where I finally find it?! It's a good thing we are 4500 miles apart! That's all I can say! $;\)$ $\:\)$ That's my cue to either start swimming, or to hit the sack (which, as T recommended, is STRICTLY for sleep only!) (hugs T- I'm just teasing!) $;\)$

Re: Will it make it easier on you One Day #1440195 05/08/08 10:18 PM
Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ V Virtually_Handsome Member
Virtually_Handsome Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ	That's a pain Michelle! If you name him as the beneficiary does he have to sign anything? Though I could see not wanting to do that. Double Grrrrr! (((((Michelle))))) (((((Lisa))))) You might need your rest! $;\)$

Re: Will it make it easier on you Virtually_Handsome #1440198 05/08/08 10:19 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA M MichelleLT OP Member
OP MichelleLT Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA	He has to sign regardless. I just don't have the energy to put on a happy face tonight. And I really want a hug from H. Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2

Re: Will it make it easier on you MichelleLT #1440204 05/08/08 10:21 PM
Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ V Virtually_Handsome Member
Virtually_Handsome Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ	What a pain. I thought the spouse didn't have to sign if they were the beneficiary. Do your best, I know it will be great! ((((((((((Michelle)))))))))) I know, not from your H. Sorry!

Re: Will it make it easier on you Virtually_Handsome #1440270 05/08/08 10:49 PM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 2,371 CA S Sugar and Spice Member
Sugar and Spice Member S Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 2,371 CA	((((Michelle)))) I know its not the same, but I'm thinking of you anyway and so sorry about your Grampa. Someone needs to find me a job at the bar too...no pole dancing though, the customers will need to not go blind! I know of a Troll though... Troll on a pole! M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option

Re: Will it make it easier on you Virtually_Handsome #1440271 05/08/08 10:49 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA M MichelleLT OP Member
OP MichelleLT Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA	Thanks anyways. $\:\)$ I'm off to graduation rehearsal, aikido, and then to meet up with my darling alien. Originally Posted By: Sugar and Spice Troll on a pole! OMG, my computer is NOT waterproof! Last edited by MichelleLT; 05/08/08 10:50 PM. Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2

Re: Will it make it easier on you MichelleLT #1440285 05/08/08 10:54 PM
Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ V Virtually_Handsome Member
Virtually_Handsome Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ	(((((Michelle))))) Good luck!

Re: Will it make it easier on you Virtually_Handsome #1440293 05/08/08 10:59 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 1,947 California G GoingForward Member
GoingForward Member G Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 1,947 California	Hope all goes well for you this evening, Michelle! $\:\)$ Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell

Re: Will it make it easier on you GoingForward #1440488 05/09/08 01:03 AM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 1,012 St. Louis area S Starshyne Member
Starshyne Member S Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 1,012 St. Louis area	I hope things go well also. I am sorry to hear about your Grandpa. My Grandma is starting to go downhill with her health. It is so sad, isn't it? And my Grandma thinks to highly of my H. I really hope she doesn't have to learn otherwise. Anyhow...I hope the signing of the papers goes alright. What a pain! Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08

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