I am getting a lot of good advice...I sincerely appreciate that. I am a little scared of completely abandoning our marriage...especially when I am still very much in love with my wife.
I have sat down and talked with my wife any times. Her answer to almost every question is "I don't know." She knows what the problems are....she is usually willing to acknowledge them. However, she doesn't actually put forth the effort to change anything...and she can't give me a reason why. I am so sick of hearing her say, "I don't know."
I don't want to just cut and run. Not unless there is no other alternative. I really want to know what I should say to her, how I should talk to her. Obviously, the way I have been doing it isn't working...otherwise, something would have changed. What can I do differently?
