It is difficult to separate from the emotions of a stiuation. I know it is hard for me to separate fellings from people. My advice is two-fold: 1) Know that you must do it. 2) Remember that this person is not the H that you loved and cherished - he was abducted by aliens. This is some clone you are dealing with. Next time you are feeling loving toward this clone, remember some of the rotten thingshe has done to you.
So yes, sit back and be patient. Also, watch those expectations. Don't think that going to baby classes is some postive steps on his part because you will set yourself up for dissapointment.
Good luck and don't forget to treat yourself often and have some fun! Enjoy being on your own: no cleaning up after a man, toilet seat is exactly where you want it, TV is not occupied with non-sensical sports-related garbage, and the phone is available anytime!
Best, --Chris
Me: 40 She: 31 S: 5 D: 3 Married: 8 years (05 DEC 99) Blow-up: 02 JUN 07 Piecing (More like Ostriching): 22 FEB 08