Alimari and Green, Good comments. I suppose the root question here, and the one potato needs to consider is to what degree and to what acceptable level their sex drives can be reconciled. It is a far shot from a 2-3 per day and 1 per month or less standard. That is an incrdible amount of ground to cover. That is probably about where my split is with my wife. Has anybody made up this much ground? The other thing, is the reflection a husband sees back from the wife on this. In his (my) perception, my wife thinks I am only sexy, attractive etc enough to want to bed me once a month or quarter. What a HUGE blow to the ego and self esteem of the husband. How can anybody NOT want to have sex? Do you really not enjoy an orgasm enough to want to put in 15 minutes worth of work? The only other conclusion is that the wife has to be rejecting something else about me...
