I'm having a very good day today. I went shopping for summer clothes. Needed to get new things for my new body and for a trip to NYC I'm taking in June. Wow, do I feel good. As I was coming home listening to the radio in the car I thought, "What a jerk." My H has been such a jerk! WE'RE not broken. He was broken and then he broke us. He's the one who doesn't see my value. All his talk last fall about me being lazy, fat, having "smarts I'm not using" by being a SAHM: bugger off H. He's the one with a gem in his hands that he's thinking of letting go. I'm mad as hell right now. It feels really good.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.