Originally Posted By: Sugar and Spice
[quote=Yoyowife] I think often, that we WAS are too afraid to set boundaries for the fear that we will push them away further.

Basically we are too afraid to tell them to stop seeing the OP for fear that we will push them away. Well, they have already pulled away so can we really push them further by telling them that we do not wish to be part of a triangle?


In the first paragraph I meant LBS instead of WAS, but I'm assuming that most people caught my mistake and knew what I meant. Sorry....




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