First of all, I have to say that I don't know anyone here that wanted a divorce and none of us would be here if that were the case.
Angelica,
I have to disagree with you. There comes a time where with MLC if there is no real movement then we have to save ourselves and our children from the anymore pain. Besides, the LRT is for us more so then for the WAW. I didn't realize when I wrote that to SF that her husband suffered from paranoia which adds a whole other layer to his MLC problems. I guess after seeing as many people go through this as I have I believe that there comes a time when we have to make some decisions.
I believe as well that faith in god helps us all. It is no real mystery that to get to a state of peace, and be able to accept the thing that we most feared most, is due to a deep faith that God is always there to get us through, and with that he brings us peace.