You only say that because you don't believe that any changes you make can actually take you to your goal. But with time and self-love, you will reach your ultimate goal - to be happy, with or without H.
YES!!!
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The longer this drags on, the more convinced I become that you need to go VERY dim or dark on your H. For your own sanity. Living apart was the only thing that allowed me to detach from my H and the stitch so that I wasn't thinking about it 24/7. It helped me regain my equilibrium.
YES AGAIN!!!
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You need to do something for yourself to help you regain your equilibrium too. I think it is a start to not call H. You need to stick it out - it will get easier in a few days.
....And you shouldn't even be hoping that H will call you. We can all hope that our S'es will someday turn around and take notice of what they're missing, but until that happens, we ought to focus on ourselves. NOT on our Hs/Ws.
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(((((((Sara)))))))) I have been there, I know it's hard, but it does get better. Hang in there.
I've been there as well, Sara. We ALL have, and yes, Michelle is right. IT DOES and IT WILL get better. You've got to BELIEVE this.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
