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It's not fun to have to take a firm stance like that, but it's often necessary to shake the person into reality, realizing how important this is to you and your marriage.
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This is what lead to my H saying it was over..... and me finding this site a slowly rebuilding my M..... he told me it was too painful to stay Married to me..... and now 2 years later I am still working out our sexual Issues.... Snails probably move faster... ;\)

I honestly thought it was just a release for him. I cannot state enough how vital this is to a marriage. That is why I am posting here as well and wish there were more posters to learn from and get different points of view and insight.

I am sure you can find Happiness it is just going to take a lot of hard work.
God bless....