Sandy,

You seem like you're in a really great "place" emotionally (although scared as hell). If you are willing to give it a go, just be sure you don't lose who you have become over the past 8+ weeks. Just like Jack said, take 'er slow.

My very best wishes to you.

Please let us know how things go with you.


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence