I guess several people are reading into what I wrote. My question was what would you do if your ex wanted to have "the talk?" It was strictly theoretical centered on you. I was interested in what others thoughts were.
My thoughts, No thanks, I was there, I know what happened, I'll decice for myself how i feel about it and I don't need to hear her interpretation of it.
If she said she had something specific that she wanted to talk aobout that might make life better either now or in the near future, well then maybe, but hashing over old bones, no thanks.
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"Life may not be the party we hoped for... but while we are here we might as well dance!"