I think often, that we WAS are too afraid to set boundaries for the fear that we will push them away further.
Basically we are too afraid to tell them to stop seeing the OP for fear that we will push them away. Well, they have already pulled away so can we really push them further by telling them that we do not wish to be part of a triangle?
This is/was me in a nutshell Yoyo. I was so afraid to tell him to go that I completely lost sight of the fact he was already gone. I don't know if my H and I will ever find our way back...
Puppy, I have asked for your take on my sitch before and I know you are busy, but could I please implore you to take a look and give me your honest opinion on what I should do? (I'm pretty sure you don't give any other type of opinions...) Thanks, S&S
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
