don't fret, keep quiet. I told stbx when we were piecing "you will break all contact with ow, you will do xyz...etc etc" much later on when he went back to her the MC told me "He should've been the one saying that, not you, if he really wanted things to work he should've said "I will break all contact...etc etc". He has to step up if he wants his M back, she could be hounding him like crazy but if he truly means to be with you he will push her away.
Just be a listening ear, and pretty soon he'll have two options: a calm woman who is his w who is there to hear him out, or the loony who harrases him and is desperate to get her claws on him.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
