CBK, I'm slowly catching myself up on your sitch. Detaching is difficult, but necessary. I'm only part of the way there myself. Probably has myself convinced I'm more there than I really am, in all actuality!
But keep doing the things you know you need to do. I'll read more and respond if I feel I have anything of value to share.
Regarding golf, it is also one of my 180s. Hit the driving range last year, and played a couple of rounds too, for the first time in eight years. Bought myself a new set of clubs last week and hit a bucket on Sunday. Wicked clubs. Can't wait to get back on the links regularly! When done correctly, it doesn't hurt the back IF the back is strong, even if it's messed up.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
