The decision is made

[cat03]

I think J meant that he's a few yrs shy from near adulthood, it would've been nice to let you know, but is not that they didn't tell you he was getting surgery or something, his studies are very important to you, but letting you know about a test would not have changed a thing, it's just a test, let go a little hon, I mean this in the best possible way)))

If you have a good inkling that he is going to be a jerk, don't bother asking him for stuff, make do with what you have to avoid any unpleasantries, your d12 will also have to make some concessions and have 2 tents, you can't give her everything.

Why can't d12 stay with d18 so you can go out?