Other than saying you should really help your wife out more around the house, did this brainiac actually have any plan to get him to do so? I dunno some solutiuon based program?
After the age of 6 or 7 behaviour is established. To affect change it is usually a reward or punishement system.
Right now a punishment system isn't what you want.
Most guys like sex. and I'm not talking the normal bump and grind standard weds. night. More like the outfit he likes but you don't wear, I'm not saying deviant, but I am saying memorable. Make a contract with him, show him EXACTLY how much you appreciate it when he does what he says he will and when he actually helps out.
You can thank me later from the spotlessly clean and totally rebuilt home you reside in.
Edit - contracts are obligations kept by both sides, btw.
Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 05/08/0806:22 PM.
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