I have gone dim and he always ends up ontacting me.
I am not a believer in divorce and he is not seeking one either but no matter what I would say, what difference would it really make with someone like that? Nothing.
When I interfere, I interrupt the entire process and he feels as if I am manipulating and controlling. When I sit back, there is a difference and progress is made.
Sometimes we are so much in the thick of it, we don't actually see the progress.
He tells me so many times how miserable he is. Someone like me would want to get out of the misery and it sounds easy but for him, it is just the opposite.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19