H4H -

Man, I am jealous! \:\) Sounds like some progress is being made. I agree with you, can always give advice, but can't stick to my own!

You did really well on the insurance issue - although that is $200 out the door, it may be something you can bring up later very innocently. The way our house is set up, when we watch movies, we have our chairs - and last time I tried to help her up, she got pissed. So leg touching, touch on the arm, those sound like good things to me.

I get what you are saying about the pursuing - if it feels right, then why not. I am no expert, my IC told me go with your heart (that made me nervous) when you are in doubt.

Glad you are not fooling yourself. Go slowly, know there will be setbacks, but it sounds like you two are getting to the friendship stage.

Be well my friend.

CBK

M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19
Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16
Divorce final 10/09