Thank you so much for the advice. You are right he is not thinking rationally, anyone that would quit an excellent job & move to another state with a woman he doesn't really know, it's just crazy!!!
He always thought that I put the dogs, my church & my parents before him. I didn't see that, I always tried to do what he wanted. He was pretty controlling but not to the point that I couldn't do anything for myself. No I'm not perfect by no means & I'm sure I made mistakes. His biggest thing was that I didn't go back to work full time after I was laid off (but that is no reason to go out & have an A & D your wife). I really didn't have to & with me not working it meant I could do the housework, cleaning, etc. & have more time with him but he didn't see it that way. He wanted money, he likes to spend, I liked to save.
I'm trying to be happy & do things on my own, but right now I feel so empty! He was my family, my best friend & I miss so much talking to him & telling him things that you wouldn't tell anyone else. It's so sad!
