Count down to separation - so we can "try".

[MichelleLT]

I'm catching him in little lies... things that he really should have no reason to lie about... unless of course he's accounting for his time, saying he's working so he can be with "her"... who knows.

Only he does, and even that's a bit of an assumption in his current state of mind. Don't dwell on it too much.

It does still feel like this person is a completely DIFFERENT person than the person I thought I knew years ago. Alien abduction, I tell ya, alien abduction. *shakes head*

Tell me about it!

If all of this wacko behavior, and what it's done to me is simply to HIDE his affair... then we're into a completely diff kettle of fish. This is not someone I'll want in my life, period.

I respect that those actions might be a deal-breaker for you, but I would also caution you to never say never - you may not even be able to predict your own actions here.

Everything he seems to be doing is to soothe his sore paws over it. Wacko behavior and all.... it's really not about me at all... even though he's lying to me etc... it's about him being out of his head and control.

Truer words have never been spoken.

(((Abbey))))