GET OUT NOW!!! You can check out my situation by looking at my threads. I am in your situation after another 13 years and kids to complicate. Make sure she is not with child and leave! In my opinion an extremely LD/ND wife is non recoverable. I don't (didn't) believe in divorce, but I have to say that a wife who will not hold up this end of the marriage is not worth being married to!
You talk about it like it's easy. I wouldn't know how to go about it, where to go, etc. And if I still love her...how can I deal with causing her that much pain?
