I just don't know that either, as happy as we were & as much in love as we were I would think he would at least try.
This is rational thinking. If your H is having a MLC he is not rational. This isn't about you or your M...unfortunately it is ALL about him.
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Of course he blames me, I didn't have the affair & I was there for him, he re-wrote history in his mind, I hope one day deep down he can see it was him & not me.
Your H is blaming you so he can justify what he is doing. Even if you were perfect, he could find things to blame you for. It sounds like you have handled things in your sitch so well since this all started. You have let him go and that is all you can do. The odd are that he and the OW won't work out but don't spend your life waiting for that to happen. You need work through the pain and figure out how to be happy on your own. It is the best thing you can do for yourself whether or not your H decides to come back.
