"It's been almost a year since we made love and he says see....that shows you we're done...Hhhhh..."

Don't believe that for a second!! My H told me recently that there were many times when he wanted to spend the night but he held back a lot!

And, your H would not like it if you were to move on with someone else. He may tell you that in the beginning but it is not true. H told me this as well.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19