Hi na- I understand your frustration. I have difficulty with the same kind of issues. My H always used to make comments that he would rather pay someone else to do things around the house than do it himself...grrr! Just the thought of my H saying that frustrates me but it wouldn't be a deal breaker for me. There has to be some kind of an arrangement that you and your H could come up with that would help the problem. Maybe you and your H can assign all of the household responsibilites and if your H neglects his duties, either just let those things go or hire someone to take care of them if you can. What are your ideas?
It sounds like things are moving along nicely for you and your H. Has he moved everything out of his condo yet?
