It's always been hard for me to ask for help too. Still is, but I'm learning. I've surprised myself at the peolple I've asked for help since all this started. The answer isn't always yes, and that's ok too.
B/c H and I don't see a C (or hardly each other) I don't ask him for any sort of help. If there's something I can't do alone (or with D's) around the house I ask a friend or neighbor or budget it in and hire someone. That's the best I've been able to do. If you can talk to your H.....so much the better.
