I guess my question is, what would your goal be in such a talk?
If you're still interested in a relationship with her, and that's the feeling I get, so I apologize if I'm wrong, then . . .
Would talking be more of the same?
Would you actually be able to approach it constructively?
If you're not, then . . .
Is there anything she could tell you that would matter?
I really have no interest in discussing anything beyond my daughter's needs with my ex. She is not that part of my life anymore, and I'm glad of it. Those kind of talks, I have a muuuuuch better mind and spirit to talk to than I ever had in her.
BH,
I think it is best summed up by what my divorced female friend asked..... "If your ex was standing right here willing to do ANYTHING, what could she do to make things right?" I said, "Nothing could UNDO what she has done." She said, "Exactly!"
NMD
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret
