I think it's VERY interesting that, summarizing, many people wish they had both done something firmer, and yet also detached more and become more loving.
DBing, but with firm boundaries, drawn very early. Hmmmmm . . .
Puppy
Yeah, I think I've heard someone saying that around here a few times. Who was that now??? Karen
Please tell me the last post on this thread isn't going to be a simple I told you so
PROMISE, Denise. I do have an observation on this, but it's more complex than you're imagining. Right now, I'm just gathering opinions.
Karen 