Hi Grace & thanks for the ((((hugs))))

I guess it does take time! I just know it won't last with OW but will he come back to me??? I just don't know that either, as happy as we were & as much in love as we were I would think he would at least try. But he can hold a gruge so I don't know. Of course he blames me, I didn't have the affair & I was there for him, he re-wrote history in his mind, I hope one day deep down he can see it was him & not me.

Thanks for the good thoughts about my dog. I hope I don't have to let go right now!!! I'm sorry you had too, I also know how hard that is!!!!