Jeff! You did the yoga! I'm happy you are making so many changes in your life. Good for you! I agree with those who wrote that this might be a good time to venture toward your wife a bit. Maybe with small gestures- I seem to remember you saying that you thought her LL was acts of service (she sounds a lot like me!), so bringing her a drink while she's studying, like someone suggested, is a good idea. Or doing one of her regular duties for her, like cleaning up after dinner, unloading the dishwasher, etc. Keep up the good work, but step it up a notch.