I so empathise with you, i feel EXACTLY the same, your verbalise so much better than i do.
When people post to me I get very different opionions and of course i want to believe the positive stanch, like Jen says, but i'm afraid i think H wants me to make all the dicisions as well. Why? b/c maybe then he can turn around and say i (me)pushed for this or that.
I know you don't want to know what H means when he says 'he's ready to move on', but maybe it might help you to move forward? Thats easier said than done I know, and I know I wouldn't want to know either.
Right now in my head, like you i'm mentally prepared to sell my house, but guess what? H has now not made another step towards getting it ready to sell and that bugs me.
Did you feel comfortable with H?
Have you seen a solicitor yet? what split did they advice?
I'm rambling with not a lot to offer.
Keep posting, you help me more than you know.
xxx
P/A confirmed 5/03/08
03/08 H said affair over, I dont think it is, h still doesn't want marriage
T: 13 M: 8 D:20 & 17 from Previous M S: 8 & 4 BS: May 07 ILYBNILWY S: 13/10/07
