Well, I am popping in here at the peicing forum, but usually I post in the MLC forum since I am not sure if we will be able to piece this M together again or not (and I dont want to jinx myself).
So I am just looking for some quick advise or tips from any wise piecers that could help.
My H has come back to try a 4th reconcialiation over this past year.
I am scared to death and really find it hard to trust him or believe him. He has made some really good steps (like apologizing and being remorseful, cutting down on drinking, and wearing his wedding band with out persasion). These have all been a complete shock to me and for some reason - I find a lot of this hard to accept this time around.
I am so scared to trust him again and I told him this and he said he understood he needs to rebuild my trust and is willing to do so.
I want to get to a comfortable point with my H to talk about our M, but right now we are taking it really slow and just being friends that are catching up and we only see each other for like an hour on most nights. TIPPER