Ask him for calls and the number, this is not a tenacious request considering you are willing to work on it despite his past issues. If he is committed he should have no issue doing this, he has to give and keep you informed in order to rebuild trust. Your request would be fair.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!