As much as conflicts can happen (and your husband's is probably genuine), he needs to be VERY careful to be meeting his promises to your daughter at this delicate stage. He'd be far better off using the all-inclusive parental "We'll see" (which I use all the time, LOL) than to make promises to her that he can't keep.
I know YOU know that already, but I hope you can get that thru to him somehow.
