Sometimes this whole ordeal leaves me feeling hopeless. But I know we've come a long way in our R, and I've come a long way, too. We still have a long way to go ... but I will make it.
~Beautiful.
Yes you will make it because you are an amazing Woman. You have made it this far... Nothing can stop you. There are no impossibles when you set your mind to it. Like someone once told me shes trash set her out of your mind and give her no thought.
~.............if it makes you feel any better like you told me yesterday..............~
MY H got a Tattoo with OWs name. Right smack dab over his heart.... LOVELY. Took him til last summer to cover it * almost a year after Reconciling..... DOUBLE And if I look real hard I can still see her name. Wont bore you with how hard that was to get over. You can do this she is insignificant ~deal with the legal stuff when you have to and when you dont put her out of your mind. My H also had a drinking problem ~ their way of "coping" .
You have to lovingly distance yourself from it. And know that only he can stop if he really wants to . Be strong and supportive of him but know it is not your fault. Know you cannot change him. It will only feel like you are beating your head against a ROCK.When he hits rock bottom like my H finally did then maybe he will get better. In the meantime try not to let it break your heart so much. I know ....
WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY easier said than done. You are in my prayers. All my best to you love, you can and will get thru this. God bless....
