you were wondering about the affect you relationship with your wife has on your sons. can't tell about your sit, but in all books that i read it was said, based on research, that kids fare better in intact families even if parents do not have a good r. the only exception is high conflict, abusive r, when d seems to be better for kids.
happy for you for all your new beginnings
me, h - 40+ m-20+ s, d, ss - 20+ s, ow, pa since 04.2007 h back and forth 01.2008 - 05.2008 h decided to be w/ow 05.13.2008 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1415899&page=1&fpart=1
