Hi Jeff!
Well done on the yoga vid and how cool taht you didnt tell her about it, she just discovered you doing it? She must surely be curious, there are changes happeneoing all over with you, bit bit bit, slowly but surely.
I liked that question on your last thread that someone asked about what does your W do when you are on the PC? Souds like you inhabit separate areas of the house and keep yourse;ves to yourselvs. Is this entirely her dictating that (she withdrew from you), is there any 180s in there about maybe, taking her a drink or a snack whilst shes doing homework or watching tele? Ways to introduce some intereaction back in, or thoughtfulness? I know Jack asked you to think if ways you could try reconnecting with her too on your last thread, what was it, flowers or a favourite meal, or leaving notes places.

Any thoughts !?

I'm never first (I'm too slow getting up in the mornings!) but 'll settle for second (only here though!)
Ali xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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