The decision is made

[ACJ]

Thanks everyone.

W2S I don't intend to give my H any reason to be smug.

Naej thanks for the link I will look at it later when I'm not so busy. I also thought that there was a 6 month time limit on D for adultery but my L keeps offering it as an option. Obviously if this is what I decide to do I will need to talk to her first. I do know that the adultery doesn't count if your spouse comes back to live with you and 6 months or more have elapsed from them coming home and then leaving again.