Hi CBK,
It is true that Bad=Good. Sunday W was totally pissed with me - because I didn't call the kids while I was away (I told them I was not going to call them and to be patient I would take the Monday off and stay with them the whole day and they were fine with that)
Anyway... W was very upset, I said that if she had any problem with my arrangement with the kids she should have called me - I did have my cell with me and I was reachable. After some bickering she started crying and she hugged me, she said that she feels lonely at times..... maybe some more trouble in paradise, but I try not to care about it. I would say that as long as there is not indifference bad or good are both good.