Also I can assure you that I wasn't having any digs at W at the party but subconciously maybe I am cos I don't see any change or modification in W behaviour. OK so thats my daily (hourly) battle that I have to fight. Yes I know I can't control her behaviour but I can control mine. (Yep I know the deal).
D6 and I have got the kitchen (W's sanctuary)all decked out ready for her, but D6 expressed her dis appointment that W wasn't here to see it first thing in the morning, but I picked up my PMA when D6 worked out her plan how to surprise mummy when she gets home. (Kids are great when you need them to be).
So hopfully we'll have a great evening when W gets home from the health spa.